Everyone differs on their view of an ideal wedding. Some prefer a more intimate day, and others would prefer to avoid the stress of planning a wedding. Then there are those who want the traditional big wedding.
I’d say do whatever is right for you, and if you want and can afford a big day, then that’s your right.
When you get married, it’s important to have the day that you want, and there are lots of reasons to have a big wedding if that appeals to you.
Here are 7 of them:
1. YOU WANT IT
If you really really want a big wedding, then that justifies why should have one. It’s your day, after all! But only have a big wedding if that’s what makes you happy. Don’t be pressured into having one by your friends parents or fiancé, or society.
2. YOU CAN AFFORD IT
Why get into debt for a wedding? What if the marriage doesn’t work out? (just thinking out loud)….
Some think that it is better to invest in the marriage than investing in the wedding. But if you have the funds available, and you want to spend it on a big wedding, then go ahead.
3. YOU WANT TO SHARE YOUR JOY.
One of the sweetest reasons to have a big wedding is that you can share your joy with everyone you care about. You can invite all the cousins and their partners, and enjoy the company of friends and relatives. Inviting all the people that really matter to you, and who will enjoy being part of your day, will create wonderful memories.
4. A MEMORABLE DAY
A classic car, a luxury wedding dress, stunning makeup, fresh flowers and a beautiful venue will leave you with wonderful memories and stunning photos. An upscale wedding will provide for it all for brides who want a fairytale wedding. If this sounds like what you want, then by all means, go for it.
5. IT’S ONCE IN A LIFETIME
We all hope that we will find forever kinda love in one marriage, so having a big wedding is something that you are unlikely to repeat. Second weddings, should they happen, are usually much more low-key. So when you get married for the first (and hopefully only) time, it’s an opportunity to put on an amazing show, that you will remember for the rest of your life.
6. BIG FAMILY
If you have a big family, chances are you’d have a big wedding If you are not worried about budget and guest list, then a large wedding is a good opportunity to see relatives that you rarely get the chance to meet up with. You can invite all your distant relatives, friends and colleagues, and not worry about missing anyone out.
The bigger the wedding, the larger the pile of gifts! Don’t quote us on this. While this may be a shallow reason for having a big wedding, it’s still one advantage of having a big wedding!
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