Whether you are seeing someone, are in a serious committed relationship,are married, or remarried, money is one topic that will keep coming up either in conversation or certainly in your minds. Do you ever chat…
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For a significant number of Nigerian women I have spoken to, conversations around marriage and wifehood began long before puberty. Ideas of wifehood were woven as jokes into everyday conversation by family friends with a…
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You know way too much about? 2Pac. He was supposed to be my husband. Earliest childhood memory? Going with my father to the hospital. Mother had just given birth to lil sis. I think I…
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Have you ever felt as though you couldn’t comfortably express yourself for fear of “offending” a man? Have you ever felt as though the beautiful complexities that make up your being were somehow reduced to…
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Meeting the petite singer songwriter, I wasn’t sure what to expect. It got off to an awkward start thanks to a bit of a hug-or-handshake-miscommunication (awkwardness initiated by yours truly, obviously), which led me to…
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Time and time again, rhetorical questions have been asked about the role of women in the society. More often than not, women have been avoided like plague and treated as though they don't exist in... Continue reading
Fight all you want and argue seamlessly about the idea of women being involved in the political process, you would realize that their absence at the helm of affairs have led to the stunted growth... Continue reading
Many are the questions that boggle the mind of an adult male, some of these silent questions sounds repugnant if whispered aloud, yet they are significantly true in the scheme of things. Naturally, when a... Continue reading
Vaginas are not gross. This needs saying, because the myriad wipes, sprays, soaps, and perfumes that exist for tending to your vagina with the same intensity as a groomer to a champion dog proves that... Continue reading
Being a parent is no walk in the park. There are frustrating times where you feel like you are always buying and doing for your kids and that is okay. You are a parent and... Continue reading
