“Don’t lose your husband oh”

Have you ever witnessed a newly wedded couple talking to friends or elders? The first thing you’d likely hear is how the wife should take care of the husband or do everything under the sun to make sure he is happy and comfortable. We hardly ever hear the same advice being told to men. @Danny_locks, on twitter surprised a lot of men and women when he gave his two cents on how he felt about it. Take a look at the twitter thread that caused a lot of controversy below

I've been married a week, and in that time there as been lots of advice…

— Skin-You-Out Achebe (@Dandy_Locks) September 4, 2017

Much of the advice has been around the whole idea of my wife having to make sure that I am well fed.

— Skin-You-Out Achebe (@Dandy_Locks) September 4, 2017

It's amazing the burden placed on women to sustain a relationship and keep their husbands alive while very little is expected of husbands.

— Skin-You-Out Achebe (@Dandy_Locks) September 4, 2017

All that said, the men that I know that are married have been a shining light of how not to be a husband. I'll just not follow their lead.

— Skin-You-Out Achebe (@Dandy_Locks) September 4, 2017

For as long as we've been together, strangers would strike up conversation and start pleading with her to make sure that she "keeps me".

— Skin-You-Out Achebe (@Dandy_Locks) September 4, 2017

Women are always given this spiel. Cos men are children to work on a love for reward basis allegedly… Even though that's been proven false

— Skin-You-Out Achebe (@Dandy_Locks) September 4, 2017

It would not be a conversation if we did not have people give their own opinions

@Danny_locks shared a preview of his wedding video

https://twitter.com/Dandy_Locks/status/903364875589693442